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Topic: Please don't yell at me.......I made a simple mistake

  1. Feb 18, 2007 07:48am by AceFadal - [b:353f9d151d]k[/b:353f9d151d]inestheti[b:353f9d151d]C[/b:353f9d151d]~means To learn by doing www.dipity.com/acefadal WE ARE, Kansas City is [b:353f9d151d]k[/b:353f9d151d]inestheti[b:353f9d151d]C[/b:353f9d151d]! http://crushproofstudio.bandcamp.com/ Location: Downtown, Kansas City, Mo.
    So I live a feew blocks from the Point. (yes that whack ass bar on the corner of SW traficway and like 43rd. I'm thinking I'll park my car at my crib and walk to the point for a "nightcap". Now this is after having said goodbye to fellow "heads" and "cohorts". Knowing that this decision could lead to, shall we say, an un-warrented disposition, I still proceeded up the block. I arrive to the intersection just in front of this so called"frat-bar", thinking I only want a shot and a beer then some herb maybe. So I step to the curb to herethis white guy with a what do they call like a fro-hawk or whatever saying " Fuck you!, I don't give a fuck, come down here and I'll show you nigger......What I said that cause you talk like you Black, and act like you Black...I'm just saying talk like yourself. I'm like "What?" So I holler, as I proceed through the door, "This is the wrong neighborhood to be screaming that shit!" I get inside this chik standing next to him grabs my arm and says " I 'm soory, I want to apologize for him." I said don't apologize, don't touch me. then he came up. In betweenall of this going on I seent somebody I knew, we connected. Then this shit. So when dude approached me, he stepped between us. cause when I came inside, I vented to him. So then when this cat came up to me and grabbed my arm, I pulled away I said don't touch me. He said "man I'm sorry" I said don't apologize don't talk to me. He then kept trying to apologize, "I told him people have gotten hurt for near less." and left. yes i walked out. Thats all I could stand without losing it. People were watching and not doing or saying shit to this idiot. So I walked home pissed and nearly sober, Then I thought fuck that. He needs to apologize in front of everybody. turned around. and I walked my ass back up to the Point. I found my boy, then I found the boy. I pulled out my cam-phone and said your sorry?.... apologize. He said I'm sorry then I made him repeat his name" Josh Heller" is what I think he said. I'll post the vid for you, you tell me. as decided to finally leave after returning for a brief and only 3 minutes. he tried to follow me out the door, this was during the time I was telling him, I was going to post this video on the internet. (I wish I would have got him saying waht he was apologizing for. But believe me if this happens again, which it will, cause it does, far toooooo often, in my home town....i will fucking be ready with the dialog.) I pointed and backed out the door and told him "Tell all these people why your apologizing, tell all these people why you like to use the "N" word. I said, "do you understand that, that's a word only I can say, I don't think you understand what you didor said, explain your reasons to them." See I had alot of time to think, and when your pissed and sober, and someone stops you from getting your drink. what do you do? You embarrass them. I hope he learned a lesson about the Point. I know I did. fuck that place. Peace AF here is his sorry ass [color=orange:bd547e7476][url]http://bands.soundclick.com/share/11903[/url][/color:bd547e7476]
  2. Feb 18, 2007 09:48am by phism
    yeah fuck that place and pretty much any bar usually. i've never been in a full on fight before, but i have a number of times i probably should have and i'm just too chill of a person. a lot of those times were people's racism or misogyny coming out because of alcohol. i think i'd rather people be openly racist or whichever than hide it til they're drunk. it'd be quicker justification for hating them.
  3. Feb 18, 2007 04:10pm by DR.T - nuts .. haha Location: KCMO
    Wow! That took an extreme amount of courage.... thats commendable....
  4. Feb 18, 2007 04:20pm by AceFadal - [b:353f9d151d]k[/b:353f9d151d]inestheti[b:353f9d151d]C[/b:353f9d151d]~means To learn by doing www.dipity.com/acefadal WE ARE, Kansas City is [b:353f9d151d]k[/b:353f9d151d]inestheti[b:353f9d151d]C[/b:353f9d151d]! http://crushproofstudio.bandcamp.com/ Location: Downtown, Kansas City, Mo.
    phism wrote :[quote:216c712696][i:216c712696][color=orange:216c712696]yeah fuck that place and pretty much any bar usually. i've never been in a full on fight before, but i have a number of times i probably should have and i'm just too chill of a person. a lot of those times were people's racism or misogyny coming out because of alcohol. i think i'd rather people be openly racist or whichever than hide it til they're drunk. it'd be quicker justification for hating them[/color:216c712696][/i:216c712696].[/quote:216c712696] I think peoples true feelings are expressed when they get that poison. I'm real quiet and laid back too. I should have known better. the going back thing was from the ill feeling of never saying or doing anything to make that person suffer the consequences. Public Humiliation. I made sure everybody that was watching, knew what he said. I don't care what happened after that. Probably nothing. But something has got to give, with people saying that shit like its regular curse word. thanks Dr.T Peace AF
  5. Feb 18, 2007 05:57pm by JKR70 - [img:66e766d8cb]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v696/JKR70/LVSIGNATUREBANNER.jpg[/img:66e766d8cb] WWW.HUMANCROPCIRCLES.NET WWW.MYSPACE.COM/HUMANCROPCIRCLES WWW.MYSPACE.COM/JKR70 Location: KcK
    Good for you man.
  6. Feb 18, 2007 06:22pm by Lucidialect
    Drunk assholes aren't worth fighting. They are worth taking videos of and posting them on the internet. You made a good decision, it's just too bad you didn't get him to say, "I'm sorry for calling you a ni**er". He did sound sincerely apologetic though. And drunk. More drunk than apologetic.
  7. Feb 20, 2007 08:09am by Whatsgood
    He was definatly out of line for saying that but I don't think you taught him a lesson when you said only you could use the N bomb because honestly you're wrong nobody should use that word.